childhood – ALLYSON ELL PHOTOGRAPHY

September 20, 2016September 20, 2016

Fall Mini Sessions

Hello poor neglected blog…

Life has thrown some really big curve balls at our family. It’s made me pause in my business and really reflect on life. It has also made me realize the importance of creating and holding on to memories, and leaving a legacy for our children. So I am once again offering mini sessions this fall to give you a chance to capture a snippet of your life.

Personally, I am not at my prettiest… I’m out of shape, a little stressed and have some tired looking eyes. But my children love me any way. Life can change in an instant. Although I don’t feel like putting myself in front of the camera I realized that if I kept waiting, I would miss out on the opportunity to save moments that show me loving on my family, in this moment. I would miss out on sharing with them how I feel about them. I would deprive myself the chance to look back at our life and have all the feels come back. It’s not perfect, but it’s life. The good, the bad, the moments that will forever make you crack a smile.

This summer I invested in a really big family photo session for my family. I can’t wait to fill my walls with some of the incredible images. My photographer was fabulous. The beach setting was beautiful. But those aren’t why these photos make me smile and cry at the same time. It’s the people in the photo that make me love them. Because I love those people. They don’t see my flabby arms – they see me wrapping them in a hug. I see the way my older son teases my youngest, as he changes from a kid to a young adult. I see the charm my youngest has and how he was such a goof that day, trying to allude the camera. I see the way my husband adores me as he holds me from the wind. I can still hear the laughter!

So let’s do this for you. Let’s make you feel something every time you look at your family in that frame on your living room. Let’s make some magic.

I know not everyone can afford a full session, so that is why I have chosen to do some limited mini sessions again. This is your chance to get in the frame with your children, your loved one, your people! See you there.

June 30, 2016July 20, 2016

Letter to my Littles | June 2016

Welcome to another installment of my letters to my littles – a glimpse of our life with two busy boys!

Dear Caleb and Liam,

June has been one of the busiest months we have had yet! It’s hard to believe the year is already half over.

This month we celebrated your 11th birthday Caleb. You had your birthday party planned for months – dinner at Japanese Village followed by a sleepover with some friends. Dinner was fabulous! (Liam you spent the night at your buddy Owen’s house and had fun there). Caleb, I believe “sleep-over” is a loose term. I think you all went to sleep around 3am. I’m not totally sure, as I fell asleep long before you all did.

We have reached the end of another school year, and what a busy one it’s been. This last month especially has been filled with field trips, fun days and so much volunteer time at the school. (I’m tired – but you are both worth it). Caleb you finished grade five, and also finished your time in elementary school. It’s a bittersweet – you have been there for 6 years. I know you are ready to move on to middle school. I’m not sure my mama heart is ready for you to move on though. Liam you got kicked out of kindergarten. You finished your year with a pool party! It was quite a send off for you and your big kindergarten year.

You also had your year end wrap up with Beavers and Cubs. Caleb you have jumped up from Cubs to Scouts, and are excited for the new adventures that await you in the fall.

The last thing you got to do with Cubs was the year end trip to the Horne Lake caves. You loved it. Dad said you went rappelling down the advanced side!

While you and dad were at the caves, Liam and I went went to Navy Days. We got to see so many things on the navel base. You loved it Liam.

We celebrated father’s day with lots of homemade presents for daddy.

As a family we have been trying to take advantage of the nice weather. Summer is finally here! We went to Beach Food Friday at Esquimalt Lagoon. We had burgers and poutine, followed by a fire with our new fire bowl. It was so much fun. We will definitely be doing this again.

We wrapped up June with a camping trip with some of my work friends up at Living Forest Campground. You were both thrilled to find out some classmates were there at the same time. You both got along really well with Cohen and Noah too. Caleb you and Cohen had fun going off on your own to fish or explore. Liam, you and Noah created a new game “crazy birds” – which translates to: let go crazy and throw around everything we can see. Our tent broke while we were camping and there may have been a few falls from the hammock, but it was a really fun trip and great way to kick off our summer.

I’m looking forward to all the adventures that await us in the next couple of months.

I love you both – my 6th grader and my 1st grader…ugh!!

Love,
Mom
XOXO

May 31, 2016June 1, 2016

Letter to my Littles | May 2016

Welcome to another installment of my letters to my littles – a glimpse of our life with two busy boys!

Dear Caleb and Liam,

This month has been both fast and slow. Mostly because we spent two weeks living elsewhere while our home underwent some major renovations. Remember that flood we had over spring break? Everything got repaired this month and we also worked on home improvements while that was going on – painting the whole house (which is still in progress – but your mama has officially put paint on almost every wall of this house) and getting an updated kitchen, which your dad has worked very hard on (with a little help from grandpa and Uncle Dave).

Living in the hotel was fun for the first little while, but also was exhausting. We did have a great pool to splash in and a wonderful patio.

We returned back to the house daily to work on things and you both got used to just roaming the neighbourhood and spending hours outside with your friends. We had Domino’s pizza on speed dial, and managed to have a few construction picnics on the bare subfloor while we watched paint dry.

Liam, you were thrilled that I let you ride your bike through the house. This is the only time you will be allowed to do that!

We also left our mark behind the refrigerator. A little piece of history that someone else will find one day!

We celebrated Mother’s day – and you both gave me to best little gifts. My favorite though, was our photos together.

Both of you showed off your wonderful work at the school Spring Showcase of Learning. Liam, you gave a beautiful little performance of Anancy the Spider with your class. Caleb you showed handwriting samples that are better than your dad’s! We are so proud of both of you!

You both also went to camp this month. Caleb you participated in the Scouts Spring Challenge. I heard all sorts of stories about you using a handsaw and building things. You hiked in and tented with the scouts, and I know you will do great with them next year, as you move up from cubs to scouts. Liam you and Dad did the big Beaver camp together and you got to canoe for the first time. I’m so glad you both get to experience these fun times with you dad.

I can’t wait until the house is back and order and we can resume our regular routines again. Although – things are changing quickly anyway – it’s almost summer! Already!

Here is this month’s family film – all about the areas you both run freely through.

I love you both,
Mama

XO XO

December 31, 2015February 28, 2016

Letter to my Littles | December

Welcome to my monthly Letter to my Littles. After you enjoy my letter please continue on through our blog circle to see what my wonderful friend Christine has written to her littles here . Keep reading through the circle – it’s a wonderful glimpse of motherhood from various corners of the world.

Dear Caleb and Liam,

Another year has come to an end. 2015 has been a roller coaster year of highs and lows. It has also been a year of milestones for the both of you. I am so glad that I documented this year through photos and letters to you both. I hope that one day you look back on these memories and can appreciate not only having tangible memories of your childhood, but also the memories of your childhood through my eyes.

December was once again a busy holiday month for us. We once again did our 25 days of Christmas – pulling an activity out of our advent calendar each day. Jack the Elf was back again too! (and he was up to some mischief again this year!) I love how magical the Christmas season is for the both of you. The joy in your eyes, and reliving childhood magic through you both, makes it my favorite time of year.

This year I had the honor of photographing your school pancake breakfast with Santa. I had such a fun time being there to watch you both with Santa. In fact this year we had multiple Santa encounters. Liam I believe you got to see Santa 5 times in the same week – but each time was special for you. Each time you smiled hard.

We also did our Christmas light drive – three times in fact, our gingerbread house building, our card making day and lots of Christmas crafts. You both helped me with baking too. Caleb, I loved how you and I talked about traditions and how many of the things we do, you are excited to one day do with the children you will have. Liam, I love that you remembered so much of last year and you made sure we did certain things: reindeer pancakes, outdoor ice skating, and making gifts for your teachers. You are both learning to cherish our times together, and I am so glad these are memories that you both will always hold dear.

This was the first Christmas without Poh-Poh. It was sad not to have her there to hug us all and celebrate Christmas Eve with. But I am so happy we got to spend it with all the rest of the family. While Christmas Eve will never be the same without her – we are all remembering her in the best of ways. I love that the two of you honor her memory so well, and have helped great-grandpa to find joy too.

Santa definitely spoiled you both. So did all of your family! You both are so lucky to be loved by so many people. I’m glad that once again you both went shopping and bought gifts for children you don’t know, but were happy to give a Christmas to. Your generosity is part of why others are so generous with you.

Caleb, it only took you a few days, but you managed to complete the Millenium Falcon that your Grandma and Aunts and Uncles bought you. You finished on the day we went and saw the new Star Wars movie – Liam you were so very excited to see this – probably more than the rest of us. I’m glad we have that memory too!

Thank you boys for making what could have been a hard and sad holiday time into one full of love, joy and glee. I can;t wait to see what the new year brings for our family.

I love you both,
Mama

XO XO

November 30, 2015February 28, 2016

Letters to my Littles | November

Welcome to my monthly Letter to my Littles. After you enjoy my letter please continue on through our blog circle to see what my wonderful friend Allie has written to her littles here. Keep reading through the circle – it’s a wonderful glimpse of motherhood from various corners of the world.

Dear Caleb and Liam,

It’s hard to believe that we are reaching the end of the year already. It’s been such a big year of big events for our family. In November we managed to slow down just a little before we ramp it up again for the holidays.

We took some time to get family photos done and I am super happy we did this. It’s wonderful to be in the photo with you boys! Thank you to Jesse for these images.

I very proud of both of you boys. This year you both marched in our community Remembrance Day parade and stood at the ceremony. We missed seeing great-grandpa who also marched with the veterans in the bigger parade. But we will go and be with him next year.

Liam you have had some important milestones in your life – you have started to read. It’s very impressive to hear your list of site words growing and to hear you read short books.

You have also been on your very first overnight camping trip with the Beaver Scouts. You got to spend the night at the Nature House in Goldstream Park. Unfortunately you forgot to bring your jacket on a very cold and rainy day. I had to rely on a new friend to drive it out to you. (This did prompt the final purchase of a second vehicle.)

Liam, you have also gotten increasingly silly… some days you drive us all bananas!

Caleb, while your brother was at camp we had a Men in Black movie marathon. It’s fun to watch you growing up and starting to enjoy the things that I liked at your age. You recently got your grade five grad hoodie. When you put it on you suddenly looked so much older.

We still been trying to spend as much time as we can outside. The days are now shorter and it’s dark when we get home from work. So weekends are outside in the sun whenever possible. The doorbell is constantly being rung by all the neighbourhood boys asking if your two can come out to play. I love that you have so many friends nearby.

The month has ended with us having a split weekend again. Caleb, you and Dad were at Cub Camp while Liam and I watched the Santa parade and got some Christmas shopping done.

It’s funny how we end up splitting up in order to spend time together. But I am looking forward to the next month and our annual 25 days of Christmas. Spending time together each day doing something special is what makes the holidays magical for me.

Love,
Mama

XO XO

October 28, 2015February 28, 2016

Letters to my Littles | October

Dear Caleb and Liam,

It’s hard to believe it is already October. We’ve had a very busy month. You are both fully into the school routine now. During our recent parent-teacher interviews, both of your teachers had only positive things to say about both of you. Caleb, two of your teachers have recommended you for a role as a peer counselor. Liam, you are starting to move ahead with your phonics program into sight reading – your teacher says she will keep challenging you, even if you move ahead of the class!

Caleb you and I participated in the Run for the Cure for Breast Cancer this year. I am so proud of how much you are enjoying getting physically active and helping with good causes.

You both participated in Scouts Apple Day this year – you rocked the Tim Horton’s drive-thru, and got lots of donations. Liam you are so proud of the badge you got for this! Caleb you are now a sixer – a leader in your cub den.

In addition to all our weekly busyness, I had a little get away to San Antonio, Texas for a photography conference. It was wonderful to spend a few days with my photography friends getting inspired. But I sure missed you two and your dad. Liam you were so excited to get a cowboy hat!

I returned home, after some lengthy delays, on Thanksgiving Sunday. Between being really overtired, really missing your great-grandmother this year, and being happy to hug you both again, I was really emotionally overwhelmed.

So I decided I wanted us to each write down what we were thankful for this Thanksgiving. No one look at each other’s answers. We all wrote our own – even you Liam. You only had to ask me how to spell “friends”. Caleb, the maturity of your response really made me realize how much you are growing up and how much of the world you now understand.

Caleb you currently completed a project at school on democratic reform. You had to present to the fourth graders, and then the grade 4 and 5 classes got to vote in a mock election. You have been so intrigued by the federal elections. It was great to see you so excited in politics and current affairs. You made me pay more attention so that I could made an educated vote on your behalf. It really is amazing how mature you are. I can’t get over how fast you are growing up.

We went on our annual pumpkin patch trip in search of the best pumpkins. I love that these traditions have become so important to you both. The two of you chatted about last year’s trip and last year’s memories as you walked through the patch together. I hope you will always remember some of these fun times that are interspersed among our too busy work/school days.

As the days get colder, I know our morning walks to school are going to get a little wetter, colder and harder on the spirits. But I love that we have ten minutes every morning together to walk, talk and enjoy the pretty forest that surrounds us. I cherish these days, as I know they will pass quickly.

Thanks for making more memories with me this month boys. I love you both.

As an added bonus to your letter, here is a little video I made of our pumpkin patch trip. I kind of love it!!

pumpkin patch 2015 from Allyson Louie Ell on Vimeo.

Love,
Mama
XO XO

September 30, 2015February 28, 2016

Letters to my Littles | September

Welcome to my monthly Letter to my Littles. After you enjoy my letter please continue on through our blog circle to see what my wonderful friend Christine has written to her littles here. Keep reading through the circle – it’s a wonderful glimpse of motherhood from various corners of the world.

Dear Caleb and Liam,

How has the summer ended and fall begun already? We finished our summer with a fantastic adventure and dream vacation, and then headed right into the school year. It is a milestone year for both of you. Caleb you are in your final year of elementary school, and ready to rock grade five. You are a lunch monitor this year and a leader at the school. Liam you are on the other side of things. This is your first year at the school and you are finally in Kindergarten. (You’ve been waiting two years to get yourself into the big school!)

Another exciting thing that has happened this month, is that Island Parent magazine contacted me to use one of my photos for their September issue. Caleb -it was a photo of you! I was trying to keep it a surprise for you to suddenly see as we walked past the magazine rack. But while we were in Florida I kept getting Facebook messages and shots of the magazine cover so I had to tell you early. It was a whole week later that we finally got to see it in person!

They also gave me a quarter page ad, so of course Liam I had you and daddy end up in the magazine too.

September means that we are back to swimming lessons – Swim Kids 5 and Red Snapper. Caleb you are in your final year of cub scouts. Daddy is a cub leader again. Liam you are now a Beaver and so excited to finally get to officially join into Scouting. Daddy is now also officially a Beaver leader too.

You both are trying to squeeze in as much of the end of summer as you can. Until today Caleb, you were still wearing shorts everyday. And both of you are still outside as much as possible. Lately you have both been obsessed with finding insects and bugs with your friends. Recently you ended up relocating a slug that you and the neighbourhood boys named Yo Sluggity. Caleb you are reading all the time and Liam your imagination takes flight more often than not. It’s a good well rounded mix. Now I just need to get you to stop fighting so much with each other!

The finally hooray for September is another milestone of mine that you have both been a part of. Back on January 1, 2013 I started taking a photo everyday – with my big camera and my iphone camera. This photo a day project was documented here on my blog as well as Instagram. Well, I haven’t been very good at editing and sharing pictures from the big camera as much as I wanted. But I am still taking a photo everyday – sometimes with both the big camera and the iphone, sometimes just with the iphone and sometimes with the point and shoot. But every day I have gotten a photo – and 95% of the time one of you has been in it. This last Sunday I took photo number 1000! It’s hard to believe I have been taking a photo everyday for 1000 days! I know you both have had times were you really didn’t want to take a picture. But you are both also really good at coming up with ideas and asking me what the “photo of the day” will be. So thank you both for keeping me inspired and helping me to document our days.

I’m so glad that this was photo 1000…

Here’s to our next 1000 days and the wonderful journeys those days will take us.

Love,
Mom

XO XO

August 25, 2015February 28, 2016

Letters to my Littles | August

Welcome to my monthly Letter to my Littles. After you enjoy my letter please continue on through our blog circle to see what my wonderful friend Melissa has written to her littles here. Keep reading through the circle – it’s a wonderful glimpse of motherhood from various corners of the world.

Dear Caleb and Liam,

August was another month full of adventures in the sunshine. And the adventures are continuing!!

We went up to Tracy’s cabin on Shawnigan Lake. You were both water babies this year. Aside from eating, you two were permanently in the water!

Liam- August is the very first month you haven’t been in daycare. After over 2 1/2 years at Magoo’s you have said goodbye, as you move on to Kindergarten. A few weeks ago we threw together a little goodbye to daycare party for you. You have been so sad that you are the only one from your daycare going to your school – all your buddies are going to other schools. So we wanted to cheer you up with some help from a few extra special guests. (Special thanks to Heroes Inc. for donating their time and talents to make both of you happy. Deadpool is still thrilled you are his favorite superhero, Caleb!)

Mom and dad have been working most of the summer – and feeling like we have been missing out on summer fun with you both. So we have spent lots of nights wandering in town enjoying the touristy things – like Darth Fiddler, the breakwater, Beacon Drive-in ice cream and the buskers. Liam you even got to be part of a busker’s show – and earned $5 which was promptly spent on a minion balloon.

(above photo taken by Caleb!)

We also took you up to the forestry museum to ride the trains and have some fun. I had to bribe you with cotton candy to get a photo with both of you. But it was worth it!

We love all the time we can capture with you, and the memories that we make in those moments we manage to steal away with you. Some times it is exhausting for all of us – but it is totally worth it.

We are so excited for the next few weeks and the surprises we have in store for you. We hope that you enjoy the extra fun family time we have planned before the school year starts. I still can’t believe I will have a 5th grader and a kindergartener. You two have grown up way too fast!! Cheers to our adventures as we wrap up summer!

Love,
Mama

XO XO

July 25, 2015February 28, 2016

Letters to my Littles | July

Welcome to my monthly Letter to my Littles. After you enjoy my letter please continue on through our blog circle to see what my wonderful friend Christine has written to her littles here. Keep reading through the circle – it’s a wonderful glimpse of motherhood from various corners of the world.

Dear Caleb and Liam,

Summer is here and in full swing. The sunshine is bringing us all smiles again, and we are all embracing life a little more fully.

Our days have been jam packed. Caleb you are enjoying a variety of summer camps – you have learned computer coding, customized your own computer game app, created your own animated comic and spent a week doing canoeing, forest games and beach yoga. And your summer is only half done. Liam you are finishing your last month of daycare ever. It’s bittersweet to see you leave the place that cared for you from over 2 1/2 years.

You are both in an accelerated session of swim lessons twice a week. But you have also learned to love the outdoor pool near us. It’s great to have such a fun place to enjoy time with you.

We’ve been enjoying lots of summer fun with friends and family too. Your dad has mastered the art of s’mores dip. With all the forest fires happening around the province, it’s nice to have a safe (non-campfire) version of our favorite summer food. We did it for dessert during one of our beach BBQ hang outs with Austin and his parents. It was another great night together with them at the lagoon. Not to mention the light that night was perfect!

While we haven’t made it to the petting zoo in town for a while, you are both loving the goats at My Chosen Cafe. You are both learning to wait patiently for dinner and our family meals out are going smoother.

I had such a blast with you a few weeks ago Caleb. We ran our first 5k together, and did a Color Vibe run with one of my work friends and her son. You, Cohen and Victoria kicked my butt at running. But the dance party and the experience was so much fun. Liam, you didn’t run this year, but you still got yourself so dirty. Next year we are going to do this as a family!

Liam, you have been practicing your skills for kindergarten. You are so quirky these days. During the super hot weather you decided you weren’t wearing shirts anymore. You are so good at persisting with tasks. You are definitely kindergarten ready.

You two love being outside after dinner playing with the neighbourhood kids. It brings back memories of my childhood. We’ve had a few late bedtimes as a result – but I remember late bedtimes were one of my favorite things about summer days when I was your ages.

We’ve also kept up with our Sunday dinners, just the way Poh-Poh wanted it. We recently did a picnic at the park – it was nice to see your great-grandpa smiling.

It’s still hard to be working all day – and feeling like I am missing out on your summer days – but we are certainly making up the family time in the evenings and weekends. Our summer is only half over, but the next month of summer promises to be even better. Your dad and I have a few surprises for you both before kindergarten and grade 5 start. We are one month away from an adventure of a lifetime… but shhh…. you two still don’t know yet!

I love you both – thanks for bringing sunshine and joy to me!

Love,
Mama
XO XO

July 15, 2015February 28, 2016

Family of three | Victoria BC Family Photographer

“In the happiest of our childhood memories, our parents were happy too”. — Robert Brault

A month before her second baby was due, Karen contacted me to take some photos of her growing baby bump and her current family of three. They wanted to make a memory of their time with their oldest daughter before she became a big sister. We had such a fun afternoon in their home. I’m so glad Maddie will be able to look back and have these memories – a special treasure just for her of her playtime with her parents.

I also captured a little video of their playtime:

Thank you W family for letting me have some fun with you. I can’t wait to do it again with both of your girls!

Interested in having me be your storyographer and capturing the story of you? Send me an email.

July 8, 2015

The story of a box | Victoria BC storytelling photographer

Whenever my print orders arrive, a big box lands at my doorstep. To my little guy this is often much more than just a box… it is the gateway to his imagination. This particular time it was his way of transporting himself through space. I loved watching him diligently work on his rocketship…